Upcoming Events
Photo by Jimmy Hooley | LC Sunset
Coffee Meet Up
Join us every 2nd Saturday at 10am at The Bean on Mesquite for a casual, welcoming space to connect with others.
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
T3 (Tuesday, Tacos, Tequila)
T3: Tuesday, Tacos & Tequila at Chachi’s 🌮🍹🏳️🌈
Join us for T3, a monthly community dinner bringing people together over great food, drinks, and conversation in a welcoming, inclusive space.
Hosted at Chachi’s, this event takes place every 3rd Tuesday of the month and is all about connection—whether you're new to Las Cruces, looking to meet new people, or just want a fun night out with good energy.
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Trivia Night at Salud de Mesilla
Trivia Night hosted by @Team Trivia with Sharyn
Great prizes and gift cards for winners.
Teams of 1-8 people.
Seating starts at 6:00 PM with the game starting at 6:30PM.
Great food and beverage specials: 25% off wine by the glass or quartino, $8 small charcuterie boards.
Reserve your table by putting your team name under the Special Requests section on our reservation page: saludmesilla.com.
Queer Night @Grounded
Queer Night @Grounded
Whether you’re coming with friends or looking to meet new ones, this is a space to relax, sip, and enjoy the night together. Friendly chat, or just hang out, or play games, perhaps listen to music either live or from the DJ! It’s all there for you to enjoy, in the company of the LGBTQ friends and allies!
Rainbow Drinks
Rainbow Drinks at DryPoint Distillers—Sponsored by Southern New Mexico Pride
Mall Walking
Walk with friends, LGBTQ and allies welcomed, get exercise, engage in conversations, deepen friendships, enjoy the day in a controlled environment. Happens every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, rain or shine! Meet in front of Barnes and Nobles at 11:00 am, Mesilla Valley Mall in Las Cruces, NM.
Montreal My Beloved (MONTÉAL, MA BELLE)
A Rare U.S. Screening
The Fostering Social Connection through Queer Cinema grant is proudly sponsoring one of the only theatrical screenings in the United States of Montreal My Beloved (MONTÉAL, MA BELLE), on Sunday, December 6, at the Fountain Theatre.
Feng Xia, a 53-year-old Chinese immigrant and mother living in Montreal, has spent her life shaped by duty— to her family, her culture, and a loveless marriage. But when she meets Camille, a spirited young Québécoise, a long-buried desire is awakened. In the balmy and joyful Montreal summer, Feng Xia takes the radical step of choosing herself — embarking on a journey of forbidden love and long-overdue self-discovery. Her awakening becomes a profound reckoning with identity, exile, and the steep cost of liberation.
The pre-movie social hour will kick off at 5:00PM. Emcee Senator Carrie Hamblenwill lead a round or two of movie trivia at 5:30, with the film starting at 6:00.
We invite you to join us for a rare U.S. screening of this film, meet new and old friends, and have some trivia fun with our extra special emcee!
The Queer Cinema grant is made possible through funding provided by the Rainbow Fund held within the Community Foundation of Southern New Mexico.
Out & About at Salud
"Out And About..." will be held each month on the second Wednesday of the month at 6:00 PM at Salud! de Mesilla, 1800 Avenida de Mesilla, Las Cruces, NM 88005.
Come and enjoy your favorite beverage and food with other LGBTQ+ and allies. Relax, have fun, get to know some new friends!
This is an event co-sponsored by the owners of Salud and by Inclusive Cruces!
Coffee Meet Up
Join us every 2nd Saturday at 10am at The Bean on Mesquite for a casual, welcoming space to connect with others..
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
T3 (Tuesday, Tacos, Tequila)
T3: Tuesday, Tacos & Tequila at Chachi’s 🌮🍹🏳️🌈
Join us for T3, a monthly community dinner bringing people together over great food, drinks, and conversation in a welcoming, inclusive space.
Hosted at Chachi’s, this event takes place every 3rd Tuesday of the month and is all about connection—whether you're new to Las Cruces, looking to meet new people, or just want a fun night out with good energy.
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Trivia Night at Salud de Mesilla
Trivia Night hosted by @Team Trivia with Sharyn
Great prizes and gift cards for winners.
Teams of 1-8 people.
Seating starts at 6:00 PM with the game starting at 6:30PM.
Great food and beverage specials: 25% off wine by the glass or quartino, $8 small charcuterie boards.
Reserve your table by putting your team name under the Special Requests section on our reservation page: saludmesilla.com.
Rainbow Drinks
Rainbow Drinks at DryPoint Distillers—Sponsored by Southern New Mexico Pride
Queer Night @Grounded
Queer Night @Grounded
Whether you’re coming with friends or looking to meet new ones, this is a space to relax, sip, and enjoy the night together. Friendly chat, or just hang out, or play games, perhaps listen to music either live or from the DJ! It’s all there for you to enjoy, in the company of the LGBTQ friends and allies!
Happy New Year!
Happy New Year from Inclusive Cruces! We hope the new year brings each one of our members and friends a prosperous and healthy journey into 2027 and beyond.
Come play with us throughout the new year. Let us know what kind of new events that you would like to see. Engage with us in the social events, the movie nights, the celebratory meals, and the meaningful interactions you experience with other members.
We are so happy you are here with us!
Mall Walking
Walk with friends, LGBTQ and allies welcomed, get exercise, engage in conversations, deepen friendships, enjoy the day in a controlled environment. Happens every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, rain or shine! Meet in front of Barnes and Nobles at 11:00 am, Mesilla Valley Mall in Las Cruces, NM.
Coffee Meet Up
Join us every 2nd Saturday at 10am at The Bean on Mesquite for a casual, welcoming space to connect with others..
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Out & About at Salud
"Out And About..." will be held each month on the second Wednesday of the month at 6:00 PM at Salud! de Mesilla, 1800 Avenida de Mesilla, Las Cruces, NM 88005.
Come and enjoy your favorite beverage and food with other LGBTQ+ and allies. Relax, have fun, get to know some new friends!
This is an event co-sponsored by the owners of Salud and by Inclusive Cruces!
T3 (Tuesday, Tacos, Tequila)
T3: Tuesday, Tacos & Tequila at Chachi’s 🌮🍹🏳️🌈
Join us for T3, a monthly community dinner bringing people together over great food, drinks, and conversation in a welcoming, inclusive space.
Hosted at Chachi’s, this event takes place every 3rd Tuesday of the month and is all about connection—whether you're new to Las Cruces, looking to meet new people, or just want a fun night out with good energy.
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Trivia Night at Salud de Mesilla
Trivia Night hosted by @Team Trivia with Sharyn
Great prizes and gift cards for winners.
Teams of 1-8 people.
Seating starts at 6:00 PM with the game starting at 6:30PM.
Great food and beverage specials: 25% off wine by the glass or quartino, $8 small charcuterie boards.
Reserve your table by putting your team name under the Special Requests section on our reservation page: saludmesilla.com.
Rainbow Drinks
Rainbow Drinks at DryPoint Distillers—Sponsored by Southern New Mexico Pride
Queer Night @Grounded
Queer Night @Grounded
Whether you’re coming with friends or looking to meet new ones, this is a space to relax, sip, and enjoy the night together. Friendly chat, or just hang out, or play games, perhaps listen to music either live or from the DJ! It’s all there for you to enjoy, in the company of the LGBTQ friends and allies!
Footloose (Inclusive Cruces Night)
Ren, moves to a small farming town with his Mom, where dancing has been outlawed. This is because a local preacher lost his son who was partying, and decided dance was diabolical. Then the preacher’s daughter falls in love with Ren, but her past boyfriend tries to discredit Ren so there’s a lot of conflict, but eventually Ren wins everyone over and the show ends with the known Footloose dance – audience encouraged to join in!
Image source: https://wallpapers.com/images/hd/footloose-musical-promotional-artwork-6wuq47qqxdmwjiav.jpg
Out & About at Salud
"Out And About..." will be held each month on the second Wednesday of the month at 6:00 PM at Salud! de Mesilla, 1800 Avenida de Mesilla, Las Cruces, NM 88005.
Come and enjoy your favorite beverage and food with other LGBTQ+ and allies. Relax, have fun, get to know some new friends!
This is an event co-sponsored by the owners of Salud and by Inclusive Cruces!
La bola negra/The Black Ball (Inclusive Cruces Night)
Spanning 1932, 1937, and 2017, three men confront the ghosts of a Spain torn between desire and repression. Carlos fights for acceptance, Sebastián falls in love across the battle lines of the Civil War, and Alberto unearths a family secret buried for decades. Bound by forbidden passions, violence, and inherited wounds, their intertwined destinies expose a legacy of intolerance that refuses to die, echoing the tragic world of Federico García Lorca. (IMDB)
Cannes Film Festival (2026): Best Director Award. (Wikipedia)
Official submission of Spain for the 'Best International Feature Film' category of the 99th Academy Awards in 2027. (IMDB)
The film received a 20-minute stand ovation at the 79th annual Cannes Film Festival, marking one of the festival's longest ovations in festival history. (IMDB)
La bola negra won the LIFF/Leiden International Film Festival 'Audience Award 2026' (IMDB)
Tickets available at https://mesillavalleyfilm.org.
Rainbow Drinks
Rainbow Drinks at DryPoint Distillers—Sponsored by Southern New Mexico Pride
Las Cruces Chamber Music Society
The Las Cruces Chamber Music Society is focused on presenting today's pre-eminent chamber ensembles and musicians in a region that has long yearned for high-level performance.
The Charles Schwab Opening Night Concert on Oct. 25th - Music for Flute, Oboe, and Piano.
Tickets are at no cost and can be reserved at www.lascruceschambermusicsociety.org
Rocky Horror Picture Show (Inclusive Cruces Night)
Inclusive Cruces Night at Rocky Horror Picture Show
The Rocky Horror Picture Show Shadowcast is BACK at the Rio Grande Theatre!
BCTC is bringing the ultimate cult classic to life with a full shadow cast performance of The Rocky Horror Picture Show.
When wholesome sweethearts Brad and Janet catch a flat tire on a stormy night, they seek refuge in an eerie castle—only to collide with Dr. Frank-N-Furter, a wildly eccentric scientist throwing the party of a lifetime. While the original movie rolls on the big screen, our live cast performs the entire show right in front of you—dancing, lip-syncing, and matching every scandalous moment scene for scene.
Dust off your fishnets, warm up your vocal cords for the callbacks, and get ready to jump to the left. Whether you’re a seasoned creature of the night or a wide-eyed Rocky virgin, don’t dream it—be there.
Admission is $20 (includes prop bag).
Concessions served including snacks, refreshments, beer, wine, and spirits.
Queer Night @Grounded
Queer Night @Grounded
Whether you’re coming with friends or looking to meet new ones, this is a space to relax, sip, and enjoy the night together. Friendly chat, or just hang out, or play games, perhaps listen to music either live or from the DJ! It’s all there for you to enjoy, in the company of the LGBTQ friends and allies!
Mall Walking
Walk with friends, LGBTQ and allies welcomed, get exercise, engage in conversations, deepen friendships, enjoy the day in a controlled environment. Happens every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, rain or shine! Meet in front of Barnes and Nobles at 11:00 am, Mesilla Valley Mall in Las Cruces, NM.
T3 (Tuesday, Tacos, Tequila)
T3: Tuesday, Tacos & Tequila at Chachi’s 🌮🍹🏳️🌈
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Gay Brunch
Gay Brunch at Sunset Grill 🌈
Join us on Oct 17th at 2pm for a fun, welcoming brunch at Sunset Grill.
To be included on the list, please RSVP with Terry at tnosgerg@gmail.com.
Looking forward to great food, good vibes, and even better company.
Out & About at Salud
"Out And About..." will be held each month on the second Wednesday of the month at 6:00 PM at Salud! de Mesilla, 1800 Avenida de Mesilla, Las Cruces, NM 88005.
Come and enjoy your favorite beverage and food with other LGBTQ+ and allies. Relax, have fun, get to know some new friends!
Queer Mini-Film Fest Movie 3
Inspired by the Emmy Award winning Netflix short documentary The Dads, this film follows a group of dads building a movement to support their trans and gender expansive kids are forced to make an impossible choice amid a shifting political landscape: stay and fight or flee the country.
There are two screenings, Sunday, October 11, and Monday, October 12.
Note: There are two listings because this film is also part of the Queer Mini-Film Fest.
Screening: The Dads
Inspired by the Emmy-Award winning short documentary of the same name (Netflix, 2023), The Dads follows a community of fathers of trans and nonbinary children forced to choose between country and family amid a shifting political landscape. Filmed over the course of a year—from quiet retreats in rural Maine and Minnesota to protests, family milestones, a pivotal U.S. Supreme Court decision, and the collapse of gender-affirming care—the film captures a moment of national reckoning with striking intimacy. Directed by Emmy Award–winning filmmaker Luchina Fisher and executive produced by Dwyane Wade, this is fatherhood as an act of radical love and resistance.
The director, Luchina Fisher, will be in attendance for screening of the film on Sunday, October 11.
A second screening will be on Monday, October 12, at 7:30PM.
One can now purchase advance tickets at https://mesillavalleyfilm.easy-ware-ticketing.com/events (scroll to the bottom of the page).
Coffee Meet Up
Join us every 2nd Saturday at 10am at The Bean on Mesquite for a casual, welcoming space to connect.
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Pride on the Plaza (SNMP)
Every year, we bring together community organizations, religious groups, political representatives, artisans, craftspeople, business owners, and leaders to celebrate the growing community of LGBTQ people and our straight allies. Not only does our day-long event recognize and celebrate the advances of the LBGTQ community in local and national politics, but we also encourage continued advocacy and activism to all who are in attendance.
Here are a few events during Pride Week. For details go to the link below:
Sept 26 - Pride Kick-Off Drag Show
Sept 27 - Pride Picnic
Sept 28 - Pride Interfaith Service @ 8:30 pm Plaza De Las Cruces
Oct 1 - Pride Movie Night
Oct 3 - Pride Parade @ 4:00 pm on Main Street AND Pride on the Plaza @ 5:00 pm
Oct 4 - Pride Drag Brunch @ Chachi’s Downtown
This event is powered by community, and volunteers like you are what make it all possible. To volunteer, please sign up at this link.
Queer Mini-Film Fest Movie 2
Winner of the Cannes Queer Palm, Teenage Sex and Death at Camp Miasma, this psychological phantasmagoria explores the fine line between media obsession and sexual awakening. Step into the woods with Hannah Einbinder and Gillian Anderson as they unravel horror's transphobic past and plunge headfirst into a beautifully messy, highly erotic exploration of the flesh.
This film runs Friday, October 2, through Thursday, October 8. Times vary. The theatre offers a senior, student, and military discount.
Perfect Arrangement
"Inspired by the true story of the earliest stirrings of the gay rights movement, Perfect Arrangement merges madcap sitcom-style laughs with provocative drama as two closeted U.S. State Department employees struggle to maintain their cover – and their sanity – in 1950s America."
-Concordtheatricals.com
As this is opening night, there is a meet and greet immediately following the performance.
One can now purchase advance tickets at https://theatre.nmsu.edu/performances-events/our-current-season.html.
Queer Mini-Film Fest Movie 1
From New Queer Cinema icon Gregg Araki (The Doom Generation) comes a neon-soaked, kinky "dom-com" thriller, I Want Your Sex.
Starring Olivia Wilde as an S&M pop-art queen and Cooper Hoffman as her eager submissive intern, this LA noir features a stacked cult cast including Charli XX and Mason Gooding.
It's a hilarious, unapologetic, and completely unhinged ride through the modern world of kink, art, and chaotic desire.
The I Want Your Sex film is made possible in part thanks to a contribution by the Rainbow Fund held within the Community Foundation of Southern New Mexico; the Rainbow Fund provided a grant award to the Mesilla Valley Film Society to support Queer film in collaboration with the Fostering Social Connection Through Queer Cinema Committee.
Queer Night @Grounded
Queer Night @Grounded
Whether you’re coming with friends or looking to meet new ones, this is a space to relax, sip, and enjoy the night together. Friendly chat, or just hang out, or play games, perhaps listen to music either live or from the DJ! It’s all there for you to enjoy, in the company of the LGBTQ friends and allies!
Rainbow Drinks
Rainbow Drinks at DryPoint Distillers—Sponsored by Southern New Mexico Pride
T3 (Tuesday, Tacos, Tequila)
T3: Tuesday, Tacos & Tequila at Chachi’s 🌮🍹🏳️🌈
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Mall Walking
Walk with friends, LGBTQ and allies welcomed, get exercise, engage in conversations, deepen friendships, enjoy the day in a controlled environment. Happens every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, rain or shine! Meet in front of Barnes and Nobles at 11:00 am, Mesilla Valley Mall in Las Cruces, NM.
Coffee Meet Up
Join us every 2nd Saturday at 10am at The Bean on Mesquite for a casual, welcoming space to connect.
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Gay Brunch
Gay Brunch at Sunset Grill 🌈
Join us on Aug 29th at 2pm for a fun, welcoming brunch at Sunset Grill.
To be included on the list, please RSVP with Terry at tnosgerg@gmail.com.
Looking forward to great food, good vibes, and even better company.
Queer Night @Grounded
Queer Night @Grounded
Whether you’re coming with friends or looking to meet new ones, this is a space to relax, sip, and enjoy the night together. Friendly chat, or just hang out, or play games, perhaps listen to music either live or from the DJ! It’s all there for you to enjoy, in the company of the LGBTQ friends and allies!
Rainbow Drinks
Rainbow Drinks at Drypoint Distillers—Sponsored by Southern New Mexico Pride
T3 (Tuesday, Tacos, Tequila)
T3: Tuesday, Tacos & Tequila at Chachi’s 🌮🍹🏳️🌈
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Coffee Meet Up
Join us every 2nd Saturday at 10am at The Bean on Mesquite for a casual, welcoming space to connect.
This is an Inclusive Cruces Event!
Mall Walking
Walk with friends, LGBTQ and allies welcomed, get exercise, engage in conversations, deepen friendships, enjoy the day in a controlled environment. Happens every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday, rain or shine! Meet in front of Barnes and Nobles at 11:00 am, Mesilla Valley Mall in Las Cruces, NM.
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